Thursday, October 7, 2021

The Most Important Things

It has been one hell of a week.  The Missus left yesterday to spend an extra-long weekend with the Colorado branch of the family business. Work has been, well, busy (an admitted understatement) as I have been preparing three cases for trial this month.  

Work is what I do so busy times at work are nothing new and frankly, when I made the decision to go to law school a lifetime ago, I knew what the job entailed.  The hellacious aspect of this week has not come from work, it has come from disappointments in the non-work areas of my day-to-day, specifically The Many Saints of Newark and the New York Yankees' playoff disaster, the viewing of each made me want to vomit in my own mouth.  

But then, everything changed.  

A great, long-time friend sent me a text message telling me that a genuinely good human being with whom we had both attended W-H a lifetime ago, and with whom I had reconnected only recently, had suddenly died.  Mark Petrocelli was a man who never did another human a bad turn.  It was behavior of which, I believe, he was simply incapable.  It is a cliche to say of someone after he has died that he was universally loved.  In Mark's case, it was not a cliche.  It was the truth.  

Having died far too young, he leaves behind two kids, one of whom is a freshman in college and the other a junior in high school.  It is a situation that is beyond sad.  Far beyond it as a matter of fact. 

Bad movies are bad movies, even when they are not simply bad but atrocious.  Disappointing baseball teams are just that - a disappointment.  In the larger scheme of things, neither is particularly important.  




-AK 


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